- My twins had similar achievements in high school and applied to the same colleges.
- They received different merit scholarships at every school — sometimes a $13,000 difference.
- I will never understand how that happened because the merit scholarships are awarded in secrecy.
Understandably, merit scholarships are a hot topic in social media parent college groups. My twins applied to colleges simultaneously, so I was determined to learn as much as I could. Spoiler alert: It’s complicated.
One thing I learned? Not all scholarships are the same. There are two main types: need-based and merit-based. Sounds simple, right? It’s not. While both types come from the college after a student applies, they’re awarded for different reasons.
Need-based scholarships are determined by the student’s (or, more accurately, their parents’) financial situation. Meanwhile, merit scholarships reward students for their accomplishments — whether that’s grades, leadership, or athletic abilities.
Still confused? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. For now, let’s stick to merit scholarships since my teenage twins didn’t qualify for need-based aid.
How do you qualify for merit scholarships from the college you apply to?
This question often comes up in social media groups, and honestly, I don’t think anyone knows the definitive answer. There’s a lot of speculation, but unless someone from the college admissions office directly explains why your kid received a merit scholarship, it’s really just guessing.
From what I understand, merit scholarships are based on how much a college wants your child to attend. If your child has qualities that the college values, they’re more likely to offer a scholarship to encourage attendance. Some parents compare merit scholarships to Kohl’s Cash or coupons — essentially, incentives to choose that school.
Somehow, they received different merit scholarships
My boy/girl twins seemed to have qualities colleges were seeking. Both were “high-achieving students,” meaning they took advanced placement (AP) and honors classes. They were in the National Honors Society, with high GPAs that differed by only 0.20 points. They were also leaders; both were club presidents and captains of their respective tennis teams (boys’ and girls’ teams were separate).
I’m not sharing this to brag (though I’m incredibly proud!) but to give you an idea of the kinds of achievements that colleges might look for when awarding merit scholarships. Many colleges also like high SAT or ACT scores, but neither of them submitted scores.
My twins applied to seven of the same colleges, and each offered them different amounts of merit scholarships. Naturally, you’d think the twin with the 0.20 higher GPA would receive more scholarship money, right? That would make sense, but that’s not what happened.
When I shared this observation with a friend, they suggested that the school might have been trying to increase enrollment for a specific gender since my twins are of different genders. It also could have been influenced by the majors they were interested in or the clubs they belonged to. Who knows? Not me!
Their merit scholarships were very different at some schools
For most schools, the difference was between $1,000 and $2,000, which is a lot of money, but not when you consider that some private college tuitions with room and board are over $90,000 per year. Suddenly, $1,000 seems like a small dent or pennies in comparison.
The biggest discrepancy in merit scholarships they received was at a small liberal arts college. One twin was awarded $13,000 a year more than the other, which is $52,000 over four years of college.
When I looked on the college’s website, I couldn’t find the name of the scholarship listed in their acceptance letter. The only information I found states that they offer merit-based scholarships based on achievement, which is pretty vague.
I still have no idea why the scholarship amounts were so vastly different.
I’m trying to move forward without answers
The results of this very unofficial experiment show that your child can qualify for a large merit scholarship if they have some sought-after quality. GPA is probably a key factor, but clearly, there are other mysterious variables at play because, statistically speaking, a 0.20 difference in GPA isn’t significant.
So, what’s the secret to cracking the mysterious merit scholarship code? I have no idea.
But if colleges are going to hand out merit scholarships like Kohl’s Cash, the least they could do is toss in a 30% off coupon — or better yet, a BOGO deal for a mom of twins.
